
A Christian Guide to Marriage, Sexual Ethics, Stewardship, and Wise Family Planning
by J.K. Samuels
DOES THE BIBLE ACTUALLY FORBID BIRTH CONTROL—OR HAVE CHRISTIANS SOMETIMES ASKED SCRIPTURE TO ANSWER A MODERN QUESTION MORE DIRECTLY THAN IT DOES?
Few decisions touch marriage, sex, children, health, faith, and conscience as personally as the decision to use contraception.
For Christian couples, the questions can be difficult. Is using a condom wrong if children are a blessing from God? Does “be fruitful and multiply” mean married couples should never intentionally postpone pregnancy? What does the story of Onan really teach? Are condoms, birth-control pills, IUDs, implants, sterilization, fertility-awareness methods, and emergency contraception morally equivalent?
What Does the Bible Really Say About Condoms and Contraceptives? goes beyond simplistic yes-or-no answers to examine what Scripture actually says, what it does not directly say, and how biblical principles can guide wise family-planning decisions.
Inside, you will discover:
What “be fruitful and multiply” means in its biblical context
What really happened in the story of Onan—and why Genesis 38 is often misunderstood
How marriage, one-flesh union, sexual intimacy, children, stewardship, and responsible parenthood fit together
The strongest Christian arguments against artificial contraception and the strongest arguments for responsible contraceptive use
Why Catholic, Protestant, evangelical, and other Christian traditions reach different conclusions
Why condoms deserve special consideration in discussions of pregnancy prevention, marital responsibility, and sexual health
How different contraceptive methods raise different medical, ethical, and theological questions
How to separate reliable medical information from fear, assumptions, and misinformation
How husbands and wives can discuss family size, pregnancy spacing, health, conscience, and contraception without turning the issue into a battle for control
A practical Christian framework for knowing where Scripture gives a command, where it gives a principle, and where believers must exercise wisdom and conscience
Unlike books that argue only one side or bury readers in technical language, this guide brings Scripture, Christian disagreement, marriage, conscience, and practical family-planning questions into one clear conversation.
This is not a book that simply tells you what to think.
It helps you understand why Christians disagree and how to distinguish clear biblical teaching from conclusions reached by applying biblical principles to modern medical practices.
Whether you are a married Christian considering birth control, an engaged couple discussing future family planning, a pastor, Christian counselor, ministry leader, or believer seeking a biblical view of contraception, this book gives you a thoughtful framework for approaching the subject with clarity rather than fear or proof-texting.
You will be better equipped to ask:
What does this contraceptive method actually do?
What does Scripture genuinely require?
What are our motives?
How should health and conscience affect the decision?
Can we make this decision together with honesty, wisdom, love, and a clear conscience before God?
Because the Christian conversation about contraception should be about more than winning an argument over condoms, birth control, or family planning.
It should help husbands and wives understand Scripture more faithfully, understand one another more deeply, and make intimate decisions with clarity, responsibility, humility, and conviction.
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